An Origin Story: The 3 C’s

People often assume Studio C stands for “Crystal”. It makes perfect sense — except I’m not that conceited. Several years into my Dancesport career (circa 2005), I noticed a concerning trend in studio management — the quelling of creativity. Systems, processes and procedures were an accepted way of life in the nation’s capital, yet, I was dismayed that it had the ability to extinguish the excitement and life creativity brings to a dance studio. So, I started to brainstorm words that would best represent the values I would promise to keep forefront in my actions and future studio: Creativity. Compassion. Community.

If three wasn’t as succinct and pleasing to the artist in me, I’d add Communication to that list. Also, for my diligent academics, you may have guessed that I factored in The Rule of Three to this list.

Compassion has been important to me for a long time. If I trace it back to when it became important, it was sometime in middle school when a friend of mine said, “I no longer seek someone who cares. Just someone who understands.” It broke my heart. It left me determined. I decided that I would try my best to understand — if it could somehow mean that people like my friend wouldn’t feel so completely alone. As the years passed, I learned that a little compassion goes a long way in healing wounds, in bridging gaps, and in building a better world.

Now, we come to Community. What started out as an artist’s naive wish for a collaborative creative space, quickly became the realization that the idea of community requires a great deal of education. I spent the majority of my life in a densely populated metropolitan area with a seasoned dance community. When I moved to Greenville, the culture shock was present at multiple levels. From strangers making small talk, to Southern Time being a real thing, to the indirect, passive-aggressiveness of the local dialogue — I was dumbstruck. Once that feeling subsided, I noticed the strange habits of the local dance socials. Yet, I heard the dance community complain about the lack of availability of dance events and socials. It was then I realized that we — the dance community — needed more education so we could grow our population and enjoy everything more. More dancers, more events, more excitement, more everything. But, to get there, we need to build our community.

Now that you have a little background on the 3 C’s and why I picked them as values, here are the three quotes in the studio that I chose to display:

CREATIVITY

There is a vitality, a life force, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and there is only one of you in all time, this expression is unique, and if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium; and be lost. The world will not have it. It is not your business to determine how good it is, not how it compares with other expression. It is your business to keep it yours clearly and directly, to keep the channel open. You do not even have to believe in yourself or your work. You have to keep open and aware directly to the urges that motivate you. Keep the channel open. No artist is pleased. There is no satisfaction whatever at any time. There is only a queer, divine dissatisfaction, a blessed unrest that keeps us marching and makes us more alive than the others.

Martha Graham

COMPASSION

An attitude of compassion does not mean looking down on someone, pitying them in their misery. Compassion is based on respect. We discuss life as equals, learn from each other and strive together to improve our lives.

Daisaku Ikeda

COMMUNITY

We are all one family in the world. Building a community that empowers everyone to attain their full potential through each of us respecting each other’s dignity, rights and responsibilities makes the world a better place to live.

Pope John Paul II

And finally, the Studio C Greenville mission:

Empowering our students with the connection of dance – physical touch that ignites our mental and emotional fire. Our purpose is to create that spark through quality dancesport education and fuel it with the continual growth and development of our craft.

Studio C Greenville

We should always strive to learn and to grow as long as we draw breath. Students are teachers, and teachers are students. “In a dark place we find ourselves, and a little more knowledge lights our way.” – Yoda

DANCE: A LOVE STORY

Once upon a time, there was a little girl. This little girl was a lot like other little girls – believing in fairy tales and happily ever afters. But, her days were spent watching other children play from a small desk while self-teaching new subjects or repetitiously copying languages. The minutes and hours of her days were militantly scheduled. Many of these moments felt void of color – as though the world around her was painted in a palette of grays. This little girl’s heart was so full of yearning for color, she felt as though she would burst.

One day, splashes of color were introduced into her world through a magical place with wooden floors and walls lined with mirrors. The chariot arrived as she changed shoes – transporting her to a place where life could be expressed through movement. Each stretch felt like a release of her heart, and each contraction a simmering of things yet to be said. When she danced, the imperfections of life seemed so distant. Because, in those moments, she was free – free to dream about arms moving like chiffon scarves, free to imagine walking on clouds, but mostly, she was free to express all her innermost feelings. It was then, so many years ago, this little girl made a promise with all her heart – that as long as dance would be there for her, she would dance.

This is my story – I am that little girl.  Many years have passed since then, and my journey with dance has been one of twists and turns, mountains and valleys.  Dance has given me so much, and provided a joy and happiness that I cannot describe.  My only hope as I teach others is that they can share in the joy dance can give – to anyone.  Although styles and techniques have changed with time, those changes allow me – and those I teach – the opportunity to grow.

During that process of growth, we will make mistakes. Similar to a dance routine or impromptu social dance, we may make a mistake… or several. How we decide to respond in those moments can shape who we are and how we handle the adversities of life.  The reasons behind my methods come from experience. It is this same experience that I want to share with you. At the core of it all, remember, there is a love story of a little girl and dance. All she wants is for you to experience the magic dance can bring to your life.

That love story is what drives me to this day.

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